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How to Approach a Girl
Filed Under (General Chit-Chat) by MegaDL on 19-08-2008
Tagged Under : approach a girl, meet a girl
One of the most common questions that have been asked by men since forever is as to “how to approach a girl?” If you ask a guy, he will probably tell you that the hardest task that he had to face in his quest to get a date was to approach the girl. Although if we go with logic, it is evident that it is not a life threatening incident and the most that can happen is that you might get turned down. But in reality this fear of rejection is the chief cause behind the guys being terrified at even just a “thought” of approaching a hot girl… any girl.
Although you might never known if the girl you are approaching will accept or reject you, but there are several methods that are bound to trigger a positive response most of the times. So read on to become knowledgeable about some of the most common methods that have stood the tests of time and are sure to obtain a desired reaction most of the times.
The first thing that needs to be done is for you to disregard those tiny voices inside your head that give justifications for you to let the opportunity to ask out a girl slide by. Remember that even if you are turned down, you will survive like more than ninety percent men who were rejected before you. So don’t lose hope and approach the girl with an air of confidence regardless of the outcome. The projection of an unsure and an insecure vibe and demeanor will definitely not get you anywhere. Just relax, prompt an introduction and show interest. And since its definitely not a pick up there’s no reason why you should be tongue tied or fret about memorizing pick-up lines.
Next when you are talking make excessive eye contact. Inadequate eye contact is amongst the main reasons behind the rejection of guys as girls prefer men who are confident and totally sure of themselves. Hence your inability to make eye contact projects your lack of confidence which can prompt a rejection. While you are at it a slight smile could do wonders. In fact it also acts as the main determinants of a girl’s interest. When you smile if she smiles back that means she’s interested too, if she doesn’t… you can save yourself time, possible rejection and eventual embarrassment.
In short just have a positive body language in order to get the desired response. Girls might reject you even before you talk to them owing to your nervousness. Hence before your mind starts racing at the sight of a hot girl and you feel yourself tensing, don’t wait to make your move and follow your instinct before you finally lose your nerve. Never let your guard down and be ready at all times. Just follow your masculine impulses and go for it. Best of Luck meeting your future girlfriend… or even your future wife!
Hmm, seems like you’ve got this situation under control… How about giving some tips on how a guy can approach a guy, or how a girl can approach a girl? Same-sex relationships. Thnx.
LOL SAME SEX RELATIONSHIPS No.
RE: LOL SAME SEX RELATIONSHIPS No
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Heh, every aspect of lifeforms & organizms have gay-lesbian aspects & relationships. Mammals, insects, animals
humans etc. on this orb for aeons had it and always will. Even ancient Aztec, Egyptian, Mayan hyroglyphs proove it, as well as Native indian sculptry. This is nothing new. Humanity has been brainwashed to project hate towards it. Christianity is largely responsible for that. In an Illuminati controlled world where all the herd thinks the same of everything, and views individuality & personal choise as a threat, doom is bound to come to it. You have all done it to yourselves to be controlled and give up your mind and will up for the taking, and it has been.
Do your research before posting mindless robotic responses.
- Closed-mindedness leads to an endless repetitive cycle of de-evolution. -
Nikola Tesla
Thanks for the history lesson *YAWN*
Ignorance is bliss and also mankind’s ultimate demise.